Reviewed by Laura Fabiani

A few years ago, I read Shannon Popkin's first book Control Girl, which I thought was a gem. Now she's back with Comparison Girl, and once again I found this book to be just as good as her first.

Just as in the first book, I found that I was able to relate to the author herself. Yep, I do tend to compare myself with others, mind you, not as much as when I was younger. I do have more self-confidence now as a mature woman, and I don't care as much what people think. But the tendency is there. 

Shannon Popkin does not shy away from talking about her own experiences. She also peppers her text with anecdotes to illustrate or drive home the point. Sometimes, I found myself laughing outright, but most of the time I found myself asking the hard questions that bring about reflection, introspection, and change. And that's a good thing because we can always improve in our worship to God and in applying Bible principles.

This book has the same layout as Control Girl. Besides being easy to read, it's formatted as a Bible study aid with questions and scriptures at the end of each lesson to read and meditate upon. This is the kind of book you need to take the time to read with pen and highlighter in hand. I read the Bible daily and have a special time of day to meditate on what I read. This book can help with that if your goal is to do more Bible reading and increase your faith. 

If you are a Christian woman who struggles with comparing yourself to others, who is a perfectionist, who is always trying to measure up, or who is willing to humbly look into Bible scripture for help with these issues, this book is just what you need. 

Disclosure: Thanks to Audra Jennings for sending me this book for review. I was not compensated in any other way, nor told how to rate or review this product.

“If you struggle with measuring up, if you’re worried about what people think, if you dread someone seeing you in a less-than-ideal situation, then you’re human. We all struggle with comparing ourselves to others in some way. That means we all need Shannon’s honest and wise words on the pages of this book. I know I did, and I’m betting you do too!”
~ Jill Savage, author of No More Perfect Moms, No More Perfect Kids, and No More Perfect Marriages

“Shannon Popkin has done it again! She has masterfully written another must-read to speak to the struggles of our soul. Like a dear friend she comes, sits with us, and soothes us with the truth of how purposefully we were created, how intentionally we have been gifted, and how infinitely we are loved. Inviting us to look up, listen to the tender truths of God, and learn to silence the lies of the enemy against us, Shannon shows us how to finally live freely in a culture of continual comparison. For every woman who has an area of her life where she wonders if she is truly enough—here is your answer.”
~ Erica Wiggenhorn, author of Unexplainable Jesus: Rediscovering the God You Thought You Knew



Shannon Popkin is a writer, speaker, and Bible teacher who loves pointing others to the truth of God’s Word. She combines her gifts for humor and storytelling with her passion for Jesus. She regularly speaks at Christian women’s events and retreats, encouraging women of all ages to put their hope in God.

Popkin is also a regular contributor for the Revive Our Hearts True Woman and Leader Connection blogs. Her articles have been published by Family Fun, Focus on the Family Magazine, MOMsense and others. She is the author of several books, including Control Girl: Lessons on Surrendering Your Burden of Control from Seven Women in the Bible, Influence: Building a Platform That Elevates Jesus (Not Me), and Comparison Girl: Lessons from Jesus on Me-Free Living in a Measure-Up World.

Popkin and her husband, Ken, have been married for more than twenty years and live in West Michigan. They have three children—one in high school and two in college.

Connect with Shannon Popkin by visiting www.shannonpopkin.com, following her on Facebook (shanpopkin), Instagram (shannonpopkin), or Twitter (@ShannonPopkin).